Guide your children

Every child borns with push does. He loves kindness and instinctively want careful from wickedness. But, at the time of born, they not yet can distinguish between kindness and wickedness. The old person wrong gives applause in wickedness it, temporary moment do a kindness parents sometimes exactly ignore it. Only flutter do a kindness in the younger brother at time imprecise, parents eye bulges out and parents hand soon give a pinch in the arm that make it to grimace painfulness.

While should, you as a old admire the intention and straighten the action. doesn't impute. Because every child basically doesn't want to imputed and criticized. Even less embarrassinged. But, they glad when awarded and showed what better for them.

Isn't it true that good intention counted as kindness? temporary, bad intention is not evaluated until genuinely done.

"every child is borned genius, but parents that make to lost their geniousness in six-month," so buckminster fuller, ever say as quoted by dryden and vos in their book is that discusses the learning revolution. Their geniousness steams off hand like dew morning rushed sunshine because wrong treatment from parents. Bot because of time ending for they geniousness.

Every baby borns in a state of enthusiastic and optimist. There is no baby that muse sad after fail to crawls. Cry that usually, as reaction from ill body or hungry stomach, temporary language speaks not yet can.

But after cry to subside, that enthusiasm gets up again. Fervid in their self. their optimist grows. not busy with the conditon now. Even less with past. but, they are busy with effort.

Unfortunately, treasure very valuable named enthusiasm and this optimism us kills in two their age first year. Why?

There two matters actually correcter to describe cause less the optimal parents in educate child.

First, science undercommunication. parents prepares science for work too many for one science to be parents. while twenty four clocks, a day last night. temporary parents task in only limit of office hours.

Second, undercommunication relegius.

In order to become good parents, parents must think to how to run task parenting, that is bring up, bring up, and educate them so that they have kindness and also parents must can stimulate initiative they, push their spirit, show honest acceptance and give warm attention by courtesy of they do.

parents necessary develop positive initiative and do to approach which are positive (positive parenting). According to simple, positive parenting cover some part.

• Concept base.
• Attitude base necessary has in apply positive parenting parents (educate child according to positive).
• Important principles are parents positive. and
• Strategy brings up child according to positive so that arouse potential positife they, their intellectual intelligence, emotion and morality push and idealistic they.

Above various principle necessary parents knows, main key lays in communication. Wrong behaviour can parents correct with positive communication. Easier children gets suggestion and positive proposal from in prohibition. Even less that submitted by ear snap.

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